---Kusiyanitsa pakati pa chikondi ndi chigololo ---
Lero tipenda kugawana chiyanjano: chikondi ndi chigololo
Tiyeni titsegule Baibulo pa Genesis Chaputala 2, vesi 23-25, ndi kuwerengera limodzi:Ndipo anati mwamunayo, Uyu ndiye fupa la mafupa anga, ndi mnofu wa mnofu wanga;
Chifukwa chake mwamuna adzasiya atate wake ndi amake, nadzaphatikizana ndi mkazi wake: ndipo awiriwo adzakhala thupi limodzi. Awiriwa anali maliseche panthawiyo ndipo analibe manyazi.
1. Chikondi
Funso: Kodi chikondi n’chiyani?Yankho: Kufotokozera mwatsatanetsatane pansipa
(1) Chikondi cha pakati pa Adamu ndi Hava
--Awiriwa anali amaliseche osachita manyazi--
1 Adamu anati kwa Hava, Uyu ndiye fupa la mafupa anga, ndi mnofu wa mnofu wanga, ndikutcha iwe mkazi."Akazi" ndi mphatso zokongola kwambiri zoperekedwa ndi Mulungu kwa amuna, ndizo choonadi, kukoma mtima ndi kukongola! Ndi chiyamikiro, bwenzi, chitonthozo, ndi mthandizi!
2 Mwamuna adzasiya atate wake;
3 Gwirizanani ndi mkazi wanu,
4 Awiriwo akhala amodzi.
5 Mwamuna ndi mkazi wake anali maliseche, + ndipo analibe manyazi.
[Zindikirani] Adamu ndi Hava anali m’munda wa Edeni, mitima yawo inali yoyera, yoyera, ya chikondi chenicheni, choonadi, ubwino ndi kukongola! Choncho, mwamuna ndi mkazi ali maliseche ndipo alibe manyazi.
(2)Chikondi chapakati pa Isaki ndi Rabeka
Ndipo Isake analowetsa Rebeka m’hema wa Sara amake, namtenga akhale mkazi wake, namkonda iye. Isake anapeza chitonthozo pamene amayi ake anali atachoka. Genesis 24:67
[Zindikirani] Isake akuyimira Khristu, ndipo Rebeka akuyimira mpingo! Isake anakwatira Rabeka ndipo anam’konda! Ndiko kuti, Khristu amakwatira mpingo ndipo amakonda mpingo.
(3)Chikondi cha Nyimbo ya Nyimbo
【Okondedwa Mamuna Ndi Banja】
“Wokondedwa” akuimira Khristu,"Best Couple":
1 ikuimira namwali woyera-2 Akorinto 11:2, Chivumbulutso 14:4;
2 ikuyimira mpingo-Aefeso 5:32;
3 ikuimira mkwatibwi wa Khristu - Chivumbulutso 19:7.
Ine ndine duwa la ku Saroni ndi duwa la m’chigwa.Wokondedwa wanga ali pakati pa akazi, ngati duwa pakati pa minga.
Wokondedwa wanga ali mwa anthu, monga mtengo wa maapulo pakati pa mitengo.
Ndinakhala pansi pa mthunzi wake mokondwera, ndi kulawa chipatso chake;
Zimamveka zokoma. Amandilowetsa m’nyumba ya madyerero, naika cikondi ngati mbendera yace pa ine. Nyimbo ya Nyimbo 2:1-4
Chonde undiike pamtima pako ngati chidindo, ndipo undinyamule padzanja lako ngati chidindo.Pakuti chikondi chili cholimba ngati imfa, nsanje ndi yankhanza ngati mphezi yamoto, lawi la moto la Yehova. Chikondi sichingazimitsidwe ndi madzi ambiri, kapena kumizidwa ndi madzi osefukira. Ngati wina asinthana ndi chuma chonse cha m’banja lake chifukwa cha chikondi, adzakhala wonyozeka. Nyimbo ya Nyimbo 8:6-7
2. Chigololo
Funso: Kodi chigololo ndi chigololo ndi chiyani?Yankho: Kufotokozera mwatsatanetsatane pansipa
(1) Malinga ndi mzimu woyera wobadwanso mwachikhulupiriro:
1 Mabwenzi a dziko—onaninso Yakobo 4:42 Mpingo wogwirizana ndi mafumu a dziko lapansi—Onani Chivumbulutso 17:2
3. Iwo amene akhazikika pa lamulo—onani Aroma 7:1-3, Agalatiya 3:10
(2) Malinga ndi malamulo a malamulo a thupi:
1 Usachite chigololo - Eksodo 20:142 Aliyense wosudzula mkazi wake ndi kukwatira wina achita chigololo; ” Luka 16:18
3 Iye amene ayang’ana mkazi kum’khumbira, pamenepo watha kuchita naye chigololo mumtima mwake.”— Mateyu 5:27-28 .
3. Momwe mungasiyanitsire chikondi ndi chigololo?
Funso: Kodi Akhristu amazindikira bwanji chikondi?Yankho: Banja loyendetsedwa ndi Mulungu ndi chikondi!
1 Munthu akafuna kusiya makolo ake,2 Khalani pamodzi ndi mkazi wanu,
3 Awiriwo akhala amodzi,
4 Ndi mgwirizano wa Mulungu,
5 Munthu asapatuke—Onani Mateyu 19:4-6
6 Onse awiri anali amaliseche,
7 Osachita manyazi—Onani Genesis 2:24
Mafunso: Kodi Akhristu amaona bwanji chigololo?Yankho: Chilakolako chiri chonse “kunja” kwa banja logwirizana la Mulungu ndikuchita chigololo.
(Chitsanzo:) Genesis 6:2 Pamene ana aamuna a Mulungu anaona ana aakazi a anthu okongola, anawatenga kukhala akazi awo mwa kusankha kwawo.
(Zindikirani:) Poona kukongola kwa mwana wamkazi wa mwamuna (chilakolako cha thupi, chilakolako cha maso), amasankha mwa kufuna kwake (ndi kunyada kwa moyo uno) ndi kumutenga kukhala mkazi wake (sachokera kwa Atate “ Mulungu”) → Siukwati wogwirizana ndi Mulungu . Werengani Yakobo 2:16Genesis 3-4 (osati) Mulungu amagwirizana ndi akazi aumunthu kuti abereke ana → “amuna aakulu, ngwazi ndi anthu otchuka” → “opambana, mafano, odzikuza, onyada” amene amakonda kukhala “mafumu” ndi kuchititsa kuti anthu azilambiridwa kapena kuwalambira. .
Ndipo Yehova anawona kuti kuipa kwa anthu kunali kwakukuru padziko lapansi, ndi kuti maganizo onse a m’maganizo mwawo anali oipa okhaokha nthawi zonse (Genesis 6:5)
4. Khalidwe ndi makhalidwe a (chikondi, chigololo)
Funso: Kodi chikondi ndi ntchito ziti? Kodi machitidwe amenewo akuchita chigololo?Yankho: Kufotokozera mwatsatanetsatane pansipa
(1) Mwamuna ndi mkazi wake
1 Ukwati wa mgwirizano wa Mulungu
Mwamuna adzasiya makolo ake n’kudziphatika kwa mkazi wake, ndipo awiriwo adzakhala thupi limodzi! Ukwati wolumikizidwa ndi Mulungu sungathe kulekanitsidwa ndi munthu. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna amamusowa mkazi wake kapena mkazi akusowa mwamuna wake awiri amaliseche ndi "ogwirizana" popanda manyazi → chikondi. Chonde onani 1 Akorinto 7:3-4 .Chitsanzo: Adamu ndi Hava – onani Genesis 2:18-24
Chitsanzo: Abrahamu ndi Sara – onani Genesis 12:1-5
Chitsanzo: Isaki ndi Rabeka - onani Genesis 24:67
2 Banja lodalitsidwa ndi Mulungu
Chitsanzo: Nowa ndi banja lake - onani Genesis 6:18Chitsanzo: Yakobo ankakondedwa ndi Mulungu, ndipo akazi ake awiri ndi adzakazi awiri anabereka mafuko 12 a Isiraeli.
Chitsanzo: Rute ndi Boazi – Luka: 4:13
3 Si ukwati umene Mulungu amaugwirizanitsa
Mwachitsanzo, ngati Abrahamu atenga mkazi wamng’ono n’kugona ndi Hagara, Abrahamu ‘anachita manyazi’ mumtima mwake chifukwa anali wosayenera kwa mkazi wake Sara! Conco, ndi cikwati cosakondweletsa Mulungu. Pamapeto pake, ambiri mwa mbadwa za Hagara amene “anabala” Isimaeli anapatuka panjira ya Mulungu n’kusiya Mulungu.
4 Mulungu saona khalidwe la munthu
Chitsanzo: Tamasi ndi YudaKhalidwe la Tamara, mpongozi wake, ndi apongozi ake anali kuonedwa ngati tchimo la “chigololo” molingana ndi malamulo a thupi, Mulungu sanaganizire za khalidwe la Tamara Mulungu ndi chikhulupiriro chake poberekera nyumba ya Yuda mwana wamwamuna, Mulungu anamutcha wolungama. Onani Genesis 38:24-26, Mateyu 1:3 ndi Deuteronomo 22 “Lamulo la Kudzisunga”
Chitsanzo: Lahabu ndi Salimoni—Mateyu 1:5
Chitsanzo: Davide ndi Bateseba
Davide “anachita chigololo ndi kubwereka lupanga kuti aphe.” Davide atalangizidwa ndi Mulungu, anabereka Solomo. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti Davide ankakonda Mulungu ndi mtima wonse ndipo ankatsatira chifuniro cha Mulungu m’zonse (zochititsa Aisiraeli kukhulupirira Mulungu), anatchedwa munthu wapamtima pa Mulungu. Onani Machitidwe 13:22 ndi 2 Samueli 11-12 .
(2) Amuna ndi akazi osakwatiwa
"Anyamata ndi atsikana" amatanthauza amuna ndi akazi osakwatirana Anyamata ndi atsikana amakondana wina ndi mzake ndipo amafuna kuyambitsa banja. Ngati muli ndi maganizo okhumbira ndi munthu winayo mu mtima mwanu, mukuchita chigololo.Monga Ambuye Yesu ananena: Koma Ine ndinena kwa inu, kuti yense wakuyang’ana mkazi kumkhumba, pamenepo watha kuchita naye chigololo mumtima mwake. Mateyu 5:28
(3) Akazi amasiye
Ndinena ndi inu, Aliyense wosudzula mkazi wake, kupatula chifukwa cha dama, wachita chigololo, ndipo aliyense wokwatira wosudzulidwayo achita chigololo. ” Mateyu 19:9
[Monga maganizo a Paulo]
1 Kwa osakwatiwa ndi akazi amasiyeNgati simungathe kuzithandiza, mutha kukwatira. M’malo mopsa mtima ndi chilakolako, zingakhale bwino kukwatira. 1 Akorinto 7:9
2 Mwamuna wako akafa, ukhoza kukwatiwansoPamene mwamunayo akali ndi moyo, mkazi amangika ngati mwamunayo afa, mkazi ali womasuka kukwatiwanso monga afuna, koma kwa iye amene ali mwa Ambuye. 1 Akorinto 7:39
(4) Kugonana kunja kwa banja"Hongxing imatuluka pakhoma" ikufotokoza za mkazi yemwe ali pachimake ndipo zilakolako zake zogonana zimayambika panthawi ya estrus. Kaya mwamuna ali ndi chibwenzi kunja kwa banja kapena mkazi ali ndi chibwenzi kunja, khalidwe lawo ndi kuchita chigololo.
(5)Chiwerewere
Uhule ndi dama pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndi machitidwe a chigololo.
Chifukwa chake Mulungu adawapereka ku zilakolako za manyazi. Akazi awo asandutsa ntchito yawo yachibadwidwe kukhala yonyansa; iwo okha. Werengani Aroma 1:26-27
(6)Kudziseweretsa maliseche
“Chisangalalo cha uchimo”: Amuna kapena akazi ena amapeza chikhutiro chakuthupi ndi chisangalalo kuchokera ku uchimo kudzera mukuseweretsa maliseche ndi kuseweretsa maliseche chizoloŵezicho chikatha, amamva chisoni, kuwawa, ndi kuchita chigololo m’miyoyo yawo.
(7)Maloto ausiku (maloto onyowa)"Kuganiza tsiku lililonse, kulota usiku uliwonse": Thupi la mwamuna limatulutsa mahomoni a androgen ndikutulutsa "umuna". sadziwa; momwemonso kwa akazi.” Ngati mumalota mukugonana ndi mwamuna mukakhala ndi pakati, mukuchita chigololo.
Lemba la Levitiko 15:16-24, 22:4 , NW: “Matupi a mwamuna usiku” amaikidwa m’gulu la zodetsedwa, momwemonso ndi akazi.
5. Aliyense wobadwa mwa Mulungu sadzachimwa
Funso: Kodi munthu angapewe bwanji kuchita chigololo?Yankho: Iye amene ayenera “kubadwanso” ndi kubadwa mwa Mulungu sadzachita chigololo.
Funso: Chifukwa chiyani?Yankho: Kufotokozera mwatsatanetsatane pansipa
1 Munthu wobadwanso mwatsopano sali wa thupi – onani Aroma 8:92 Khalani mwa Khristu Yesu—Onani Aroma 8:1
3 Kubisika ndi Khristu mwa Mulungu—Onani Akolose 3:3
4 Iye wobadwa mwa Mulungu ali ndi thupi lauzimu, lopanda zilakolako ndi zilakolako za thupi (munthu watsopano) sakwatira kapena kukwatiwa. Onani 1 Akorinto 15:44 ndi Mateyu 22:30 .
【Zindikirani】
Aliyense amene wabadwa mwa Mulungu ndi kuukitsidwa ali ndi thupi lauzimu - onani 1 Akorinto 15:44 munthu watsopano sali wa thupi lakale - tchulani Aroma 8:9, kotero wobadwanso (munthu watsopano) alibe mphamvu; zilakolako zoipa ndi zilakolako za thupi, ndipo sakwatira kapena kukwatiwa ali ngati mngelo wochokera kumwamba! Munthu wobadwanso mwatsopano sadzachimwa, kapena kuchita chigololo.
Mwachitsanzo, malamulo a malamulo athupi:
1 Usaphe
Yesu anati: “Anthu a dziko lapansi amakwatira ndi kukwatiwa; ndipo popeza anaukitsidwa, Monga Mwana wa Mulungu Luka 20:34-36 .
[Zindikirani:] Anthu atsopano amene amabadwanso ndi kuukitsidwa sangafenso ngati angelo. Pa nthawiyo, kodi muyenera kusunga lamulo lakuti “Usaphe” Ayi, si choncho? imfa kapena temberero. Onani Chivumbulutso 21:4, 22:3 !
2 Usachite chigololo
Chitsanzo: Anthu amene amakonda kusuta komanso amene sakonda kusuta, thupi lawo limagulitsidwa ku uchimo (onani Aroma 7:14). mitima yawo itsata thupi likonda kusuta;
Zindikirani: Chifukwa munthu wobadwanso mwatsopano ali thupi lauzimu ndipo alibenso zilakolako zoipa ndi zilakolako za thupi, iwo sakwatira kapena kukwatiwa, monga angelo.Pakuti pamene palibe lamulo, palibe kulakwa (onani Aroma 4:15).
Munthu wobadwanso mwatsopano ali kale mfulu ku lamulo, ndipo palibe chifukwa choti usunge malamulo (osachita chigololo) ndi malamulo a thupi. Kodi mukumvetsa izi?
3 Usabe
Zindikirani: Iwo amene adawakonzeratu, iwo adawayitana, adawayesanso olungama; Aroma 8:30 . Kodi mu ufumu wa Mulungu muli kubabe?
4 Usachite umboni wonama
Zindikirani: Munthu wobadwanso mwatsopano ali ndi Atate mwa iye, mawu a Khristu mu mtima mwake, ndipo Mzimu Woyera amadzikonzanso yekha kuti achite zinthu zokondweretsa Atate Mwa njira imeneyi, kodi iye angachitire umboni wonama? chifukwa Mzimu Woyera amatha kumvetsa zinthu zonse, Mawu a Mulungu ali mwa ife, ndipo tikhoza kuzindikira maganizo ndi zolinga za mitima yathu. Ndiye mukufunikabe kutsatira malamulowa, sichoncho?
5 Musakhale aumbombo
Zindikirani: Inu amene mwabadwa mwa Mulungu ndinu ana onse a Atate wa Kumwamba ndipo ndinu cholowa cha Atate wa Kumwamba. Iye amene sanatimana Mwana wake wa iye yekha, koma anampereka chifukwa cha ife tonse, adzalekera bwanji kutipatsanso ife zinthu zonse kwaulere pamodzi ndi Iye? Aroma 8:32 . M’njira imeneyi, ngati muli nacho cholowa cha Atate wanu wakumwamba, kodi mudzasirirabe zinthu za anthu ena?
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