--- Nigute ushobora gutandukanya urukundo nubusambanyi ---
Uyu munsi tuzasuzuma gusangira ubusabane: urukundo n'ubusambanyi
Reka dufungure Bibiliya mu Itangiriro Igice cya 2, umurongo wa 23-25, hanyuma dusome hamwe:Umugabo ati: Iri ni igufwa ryamagufwa yanjye ninyama zumubiri wanjye Urashobora guhamagara umugore we kuko yakuwe kumugabo.
Umugabo rero azasiga se na nyina akomezanya numugore we, bombi bahinduke umubiri umwe. Icyo gihe abashakanye bari bambaye ubusa kandi nta soni bari bafite.
1. Urukundo
Ikibazo: Urukundo ni iki?Igisubizo: Ibisobanuro birambuye hepfo
(1) Urukundo hagati ya Adamu na Eva
--Abashakanye bari bambaye ubusa kandi nta soni--
1 Adamu abwira Eva ati: "Iri ni igufwa ryamagufwa yanjye ninyama zumubiri wanjye, reka nkwite umugore"!"Abagore" nimpano nziza cyane Imana yahaye abagabo, ni ukuri, ineza n'ubwiza! Nishimwe, umufasha, ihumure, numufasha!
Umugabo azasiga ababyeyi be;
3 Injira umugore wawe,
4 Bombi bahinduka umwe.
5 Umugabo n'umugore we bari bambaye ubusa, ntibagira isoni.
[Icyitonderwa] Adamu na Eva bari mu busitani bwa Edeni, imitima yabo yari yera, yera, urukundo nyarwo, ukuri, ibyiza nubwiza! Kubwibyo, umugabo n'umugore bambaye ubusa kandi nta soni bafite. Uru ni urukundo rutarinjira mu bantu.)
(2) Urukundo hagati ya Isaka na Rebeka
Isaka rero azana Rebeka mu ihema rya nyina nyina, amujyana kuba umugore we, aramukunda. Isaka yabonye ihumure noneho nyina yagiye. Itangiriro 24:67
[Icyitonderwa] Isaka asobanura Kristo, naho Rebeka agereranya itorero! Isaka yashakanye na Rebeka aramukunda! Ni ukuvuga, Kristo yashakanye nitorero kandi akunda itorero.
(3) Gukunda Indirimbo Zindirimbo
Umugabo Ukundwa n'Abashakanye】
"Bakundwa" bisobanura Kristo,"Abashakanye beza":
1 yerekana inkumi itanduye-2 Abakorinto 11: 2, Ibyahishuwe 14: 4;
2 yerekana itorero-Abefeso 5:32;
3 yerekana umugeni wa Kristo - Ibyahishuwe 19: 7.
Ndi roza ya Sharoni na lili yo mu kibaya.Umukunzi wanjye ari mubagore, nka lili mumahwa.
Umukunzi wanjye ari mubagabo nkuko igiti cya pome kiri mubiti.
Nicaye munsi yigitutu cye nezerewe kandi ndya imbuto ze,
Numva biryoshye. Yanzanye muri salle y'ibirori anshiraho urukundo nk'ibendera rye hejuru yanjye. Indirimbo y'indirimbo 2: 1-4
Nyamuneka unshyire kumutima wawe nkikidodo kandi unjyane kumaboko yawe nka kashe.Kuberako urukundo rukomeye nkurupfu, ishyari ni ubugome nkumuriro utazima ni umurabyo wumuriro, urumuri rwaka rwa Nyagasani; Urukundo ntirushobora kuzimwa n'amazi menshi, ntirushobora kurohama n'umwuzure. Niba umuntu ahinduye ubutunzi bwose mumuryango we kubwurukundo, azasuzugurwa. Indirimbo y'indirimbo 8: 6-7
2. Ubusambanyi
Ikibazo: Ubusambanyi nubusambanyi ni iki?Igisubizo: Ibisobanuro birambuye hepfo
(1) Ukurikije umwuka wera wavutse ubwa kabiri:
1 Inshuti z'isi - reba Yakobo 4: 42 Itorero ryunze ubumwe n'abami b'isi - Reba Ibyahishuwe 17: 2
3. Abashingiye ku mategeko - reba Abaroma 7: 1-3, Gal
(2) Ukurikije amategeko y'amategeko y'umubiri:
1 Ntugasambane - Kuva 20:142 Umuntu wese watanye n'umugore we akarongora undi arasambana, kandi uzashyingiranwa n'umugore watanye. ”Luka 16:18
3 Umuntu wese ureba umugore yifuza, yamaze gusambana na we mu mutima - Matayo 5: 27-28
3. Nigute dushobora gutandukanya urukundo nubusambanyi
Ikibazo: Abakristo bamenya bate urukundo?Igisubizo: Ubukwe bwahujwe nImana ni urukundo!
1 Umuntu arashaka gusiga ababyeyi be,2 Nube hamwe n'umugore wawe,
3 Bombi bahinduka umwe,
4 Ni ubufatanye bw'Imana,
5 Ntihakagire umuntu utandukana - Reba muri Matayo 19: 4-6
6 Bombi bari bambaye ubusa,
7 Ntukagire isoni - Reba Itangiriro 2:24
Ikibazo: Abakristo bamenya bate ubusambanyi?Igisubizo: Irari iryo ari ryo ryose "hanze" gushyingiranwa kw'Imana ni ugusambana.
(Urugero :) Itangiriro 6: 2 Igihe abahungu b'Imana babonaga abakobwa b'abantu bari beza, babafata nk'abagore bihitiyemo.
. Imana ”) → Ntabwo ari ubukwe buhujwe n'Imana. Reba Yakobo 2:16Itangiriro 3-4 (ntabwo) Imana ifatanya nabagore babantu kubyara → "abagabo bakomeye, intwari nicyamamare" → "intwari, ibigirwamana, abirasi, abirasi" bakunda kuba "abami" kandi abantu basenga cyangwa babasenga banga .
Uwiteka abona ko ububi bw'umuntu bwari bwinshi ku isi, kandi ko ibitekerezo bye byose byari bibi gusa, Itangiriro 6: 5
4. Imyitwarire n'ibiranga (urukundo, ubusambanyi)
Ikibazo: Ni ibihe bikorwa urukundo? Ibyo bikorwa birasambana?Igisubizo: Ibisobanuro birambuye hepfo
(1) Umugabo n'umugore
1 Ubukwe bw'ubufatanye bw'Imana
Umugabo azasiga ababyeyi be yizirike ku mugore we, bombi bahinduke umubiri umwe! Ubukwe bufatanije nImana ntibushobora gutandukana numuntu. Kurugero, umugabo abuze umugore we cyangwa umugore abura umugabo we Bombi bambaye ubusa kandi "bunze ubumwe" nta soni → uru ni urukundo. Nyamuneka reba 1 Abakorinto 7: 3-4.Urugero: Adamu na Eva - reba Itangiriro 2: 18-24
Urugero: Aburahamu na Sara - reba Itangiriro 12: 1-5
Urugero: Isaka na Rebeka - reba Itangiriro 24:67
2 Ubukwe bwahawe umugisha n'Imana
Urugero: Nowa n'umuryango we - reba Itangiriro 6:18Urugero: Yakobo yakundwaga n'Imana, kandi abagore be bombi n'abaja be babyaye imiryango cumi n'ibiri ya Isiraheli. Ubu bwari ubukwe bwahawe umugisha n'Imana!
Urugero: Rusi na Bowazi - Reba Luka: 4:13
3 Ntabwo ari ubukwe buhujwe n'Imana
Kurugero, niba Aburahamu afashe inshoreke akaryamana na Hagari, Aburahamu azumva "isoni" mumutima we kuko adakwiriye umugore we Sara! Kubwibyo, ni ishyingiranwa ridashimisha Imana. Amaherezo, benshi mu bakomoka kuri Hagari "babyaye" Ishimayeli yatandukiriye inzira z'Imana maze atererana Imana.
4 Imana ntireba imyitwarire y'abantu
Urugero: Tamash na YudaImyitwarire ya Tamar, umukazana we na sebukwe yafatwaga nk'icyaha cyo "gusambana" ukurikije amategeko y'umubiri. Icyakora, Imana ntiyigeze itekereza ku myitwarire ya Tamari Imana hamwe no kwizera kwe kubyara umuhungu wa Yuda. Imana yatangaje ko ari umukiranutsi. Reba Itangiriro 38: 24-26, Matayo 1: 3 no Gutegeka kwa kabiri 22 "Itegeko ryo kuba indakemwa"
Urugero: Lahabu na Salmon - Matayo 1: 5
Urugero: David na Batisheba
Dawidi "yasambanye kandi aguza inkota yo kwica." Dawidi amaze guhanwa n'Imana, yibaruka Salomo. Kandi kubera ko Dawidi yakundaga Imana n'umutima we wose kandi agakurikiza ubushake bw'Imana muri byose (kuyobora Abisiraheli kwiringira Imana), yiswe umuntu nyuma yumutima wImana. Reba Ibyakozwe 13:22 na 2 Samweli 11-12.
(2) Abagabo n'abagore batubatse
"Abahungu n'abakobwa" bivuga abagabo n'abagore batashyingiranywe Abahungu n'abakobwa bakundana kandi bashaka gushinga urugo Iyi niyo ntangiriro y'urukundo. Niba ufite ibitekerezo byifuza hamwe nundi muntu mumutima wawe, uba usambanye.Nkuko Umwami Yesu yabivuze: Ariko ndabibabwiye, umuntu wese ureba umugore yifuza aba yarasambanye na we mu mutima we. Matayo 5:28
(3) Abapfakazi
Ndabibabwiye, umuntu wese watanye n'umugore we, usibye ubusambanyi, aba asambanye, kandi uzarongora umugore watanye aba asambanye. ”Matayo 19: 9
[Nkuko Pawulo abibona]
1 Kubatashyingiranywe n'abapfakaziNiba udashobora kubufasha, urashobora kurongora. Aho gutwika ibyifuzo, byaba byiza dushatse. 1 Abakorinto 7: 9
2 Niba umugabo wawe apfuye, urashobora kongera gushakaMugihe umugabo ari muzima, umugore arabohwa niba umugabo apfuye, umugore afite umudendezo wo kongera gushaka uko ashaka, ariko kumuntu uri muri Nyagasani. 1 Abakorinto 7:39
(4) Ibibazo bidasanzwe"Hongxing isohoka mu rukuta" isobanura umugore ufite uburabyo bwuzuye kandi irari ry'ibitsina rye rikorwa mu gihe cya estrus. Bivuga umugore ufite imibonano mpuzabitsina kandi akaryamana n'umugabo. Umugabo yaba afite ibibazo bidasanzwe cyangwa umugore afite ibibazo bidasanzwe, imyitwarire yabo irasambana.
(5) Ubusambanyi
Ubusambanyi n'ubusambanyi hagati y'abagabo n'abagore ni ibikorwa byo gusambana.
Kubwibyo, Imana yabahaye irari riteye isoni. Abagore babo bahinduye imikoreshereze yabyo muburyo budasanzwe kandi nabagabo babo, baretse imikoreshereze yabyo, bakarya irari, no kwifuza, kandi abagabo bakora ibintu biteye isoni nabagabo, kandi barabikwiriye; ubwabo. Reba Abaroma 1: 26-27
(6) Kwikinisha
"Ibinezeza by'icyaha": Abagabo cyangwa abagore bamwe babona kunyurwa n'umunezero bivuye ku byaha binyuze mu kwikinisha no kwikinisha. Nyuma yo kwizizirwa bimaze gushira, bumva bicujije, ububabare, n'ubusa mu bugingo bwabo. Iki ni igikorwa cyo gusambana.
(7) Inzozi za nijoro (inzozi zitose)"Gutekereza buri munsi, kurota buri joro": Umubiri wumugabo usohora imisemburo ya androgene kandi ugasohora "amasohoro". Nijoro, azakurikiza irari ry'umubiri we Iyo asinziriye, arota akora imibonano mpuzabitsina numugore azi cyangwa ntabizi kimwe no kubagore. "Niba urota kuryamana numugabo mugihe utwite, uba usambanye;
Abalewi 15: 16-24, 22: 4 "Umwuka wijoro wumugabo" ashyirwa mubikorwa byanduye, kandi ni nako bimeze kubagore.
5. Umuntu wese wabyawe n'Imana ntazigera akora icyaha
Ikibazo: Nigute umuntu yakwirinda gusambana?Igisubizo: Uzagomba "kuvuka ubwa kabiri" kandi yavutse ku Mana ntazasambana.
Ikibazo: Kubera iki?Igisubizo: Ibisobanuro birambuye hepfo
1 Umuntu mushya wavutse ntabwo ari uw'umubiri - reba Abaroma 8: 9Guma muri Kristo Yesu - Reba mu Baroma 8: 1
3 Wihishe hamwe na Kristo mu Mana - Reba Abakolosayi 3: 3
4 Uwabyawe n'Imana afite umubiri wumwuka, udafite irari n ibyifuzo byumubiri (Umuntu mushya) ntabwo arongora cyangwa ngo atangwe mubukwe. Reba 1 Abakorinto 15:44 na Matayo 22:30.
【Icyitonderwa】
Umuntu wese wavutse ku Mana akazuka afite umubiri wumwuka - reba 1 Abakorinto 15:44; umuntu mushya ntabwo ari uwumubiri ushaje - reba Abaroma 8: 9, bityo abavutse bashya (umuntu mushya) ntabwo afite Uwiteka; irari ribi n'ibyifuzo byumubiri, kandi ntarongore cyangwa kurongora Kurongora ni nkumumarayika uva mwijuru! Umuntu mushya wavutse ntazacumura, kandi ntazasambana.
Kurugero, amategeko yamategeko ya kamere:
1 Ntukice
Yesu yaravuze ati: "Abantu bo kuri iyi si barashyingiranwa kandi bagashyingirwa; ariko abitwa ko bakwiriye iyo si ntibashyingirwa cyangwa ngo bashyingirwe n'abazima mu bapfuye; kuko badashobora kongera gupfa, nk'abamarayika; kandi kubera ko bazutse, Nk'Umwana w'Imana Luka 20: 34-36.
[Icyitonderwa:] Abantu bashya bavutse kandi bazutse ntibashobora kongera gupfa, kimwe nabamarayika. Icyo gihe, ukeneye kubahiriza itegeko "Ntukice", Oya, ntushobora kwica abandi, kandi abandi ntibashobora kukwica urupfu cyangwa umuvumo. Reba mu Byahishuwe 21: 4, 22: 3!
2 Ntugasambane
Urugero: Abantu bakunda kunywa itabi n'abantu badakunda kunywa itabi Abantu bakunda kunywa itabi bagurisha icyaha (reba Abaroma 7:14). Bakunda amategeko yicyaha (reba Abaroma 7:23) imitima yabo ikurikira Umubiri ukunda kunywa itabi;
Icyitonderwa: Kuberako umuntu mushya wavutse ari umubiri wumwuka kandi ntagifite irari ribi nicyifuzo cyumubiri, ntibashyingirwa cyangwa ngo bashyingire, kimwe nabamarayika Kubwibyo, umuntu wese wavutse ubwa kabiri ntazakora icyaha cyangwa ngo asambane.Kuberako ahatariho amategeko, nta kurenga (reba Abaroma 4:15)
Umuntu mushya wavutse asanzwe afite umudendezo mu mategeko, kandi nta mpamvu yo gukurikiza amategeko (kudasambana) n'amabwiriza agenga umubiri. Umuntu wese wabyawe n'Imana ntabwo akora icyaha cyangwa ngo asambane. Urabyumva? Reba 1Yohana 3: 9, 5:18
3 Ntukibe
Icyitonderwa: Abo yateganije nabo yahamagaye nabo yise abatsindishiriza nabo yatsindagirije; Abaroma 8:30. Muri uru rubanza, haracyari ubujura mu bwami bw'Imana? Uracyakeneye kubahiriza "Ntukibe"?
4 Ntugashinje ibinyoma
Icyitonderwa: Umuntu mushya wavutse afite Se muri we, ijambo rya Kristo mumutima we, kandi Umwuka Wera yisubiraho kugirango akore ibintu bishimisha Data Muri ubu buryo, ashobora gutanga "ubuhamya bwibinyoma" Ntibishoboka ,? burya, Kuberako Umwuka Wera ashobora kumva ibintu byose, Ijambo ry'Imana riri muri twe, kandi dushobora gutahura ibitekerezo n'imigambi yimitima yacu. Noneho uracyakeneye kubahiriza aya mabwiriza? Ntibikenewe, sibyo?
5 Ntukabe umururumba
Icyitonderwa: Mwavutse ku Mana mwese muri abana ba Data wo mwijuru kandi ni umurage wa Data wo mwijuru. Utarinze Umwana we bwite, ariko akamutanga kuri twese, ni gute atazabana na we kuduha byose? Abaroma 8:32. Muri ubu buryo, niba ufite umurage wa So wo mwijuru, uzakomeza kwifuza ibintu byabandi?
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