---Ukwahlula njani phakathi kothando nokukrexeza---
Namhlanje siza kuhlolisisa ukwabelana ngobudlelwane: uthando kunye nokukrexeza
Masivule iBhayibhile kwiGenesis iSahluko 2, iivesi 23-25, size sifunde kunye:Wathi uAdam, Lithambo lasemathanjeni am, yinyama yasenyameni yam.
Ngako oko indoda yomshiya uyise nonina, inamathele emfazini wayo, baze abo babini babe nyama-nye. Esi sibini sasihamba ze ngelo xesha kwaye singenazintloni.
1. Uthando
Umbuzo: Yintoni uthando?Impendulo: Inkcazo eneenkcukacha apha ngezantsi
(1) Uthando phakathi kuka-Adam noEva
--Isibini sasihamba ze kwaye singenazintloni--
1 Wathi uAdam kuEva, Eli lithambo lasemathanjeni am, yinyama yasenyameni yam;"Abafazi" zezona zipho zihle kakhulu ezinikwe nguThixo kumadoda, ziyinyani, ububele kunye nobuhle! Kukuncoma, iqabane, intuthuzelo, kunye nomncedi!
2 Indoda iya kubashiya abazali bayo;
3Zibandakanye nomfazi wakho,
4 Aba babini baba banye.
5 Babehamba ze indoda leyo, bengenazintloni.
[Qaphela] uAdam noEva babekuMyezo wase-Edeni, iintliziyo zabo zazinyulu, zingcwele, zinothando lokwenyani, inyaniso, ukulunga nobuhle! Ngoko ke, indoda nomfazi bahamba ze kwaye abanazintloni Olu luthando olungekangeni ebantwini.
(2)Uthando lukaIsake noRebheka
UIsake wamngenisa uRebheka ententeni kaSara unina, wamzeka ukuba abe ngumkakhe, wamthanda. UIsake wathuthuzeleka ngoku kuba unina engekho. Genesis 24:67
[Qaphela] uIsake ufuzisela uKristu, kwaye uRebheka ufuzisela ibandla! UIsake watshata noRebheka yaye wamthanda! Oko kukuthi, uKristu utshata ibandla yaye uyalithanda ibandla.
(3)Uthando lweNgoma yazo iiNgoma
【Indoda ethandekayo nesibini】
“Intanda” ifanekisela uKristu,"Isibini Esigqwesileyo":
Eyoku-1 ifuzisela intombi enyulu—2 Korinte 11:2, ISityhilelo 14:4;
Isi-2 sifuzisela ibandla-Efese 5:32;
I-3 ifuzisela umtshakazi kaKristu - ISityhilelo 19: 7.
Ndingumfiyo waseSharon, ndiyinyibiba yasentlanjeni.Intanda yam iphakathi kweentokazi, Njengenyibiba phakathi kwemithana enameva.
Intanda yam iphakathi kwabantu, Njengomthi wama-apile phakathi kwemithi.
Ndahlala phantsi komthunzi wakhe ndinovuyo, ndasiva isiqhamo sawo;
Ivakala kamnandi. Indingenisa endlwini yesidlo, ibeke ibhanile phezu kwam. INgoma yazo iiNgoma 2:1-4
Khawundibeke entliziyweni yakho njengomsesane wokutywina, undithwale ngengalo yakho njengesigxivizo.Kuba uthando lunjengokufa, ikhwele liyingcwangu; Uthando alunakucinywa ngamanzi amaninzi, alunakurhaxwa zizikhukula. Ukuba nabani na utshintshisa bonke ubutyebi bentsapho yakhe ngothando, uya kuba yinto engento. INgoma yazo iiNgoma 8:6-7
2. Ukukrexeza
Umbuzo: Yintoni ukukrexeza nokukrexeza?Impendulo: Inkcazo eneenkcukacha apha ngezantsi
(1) Ngokomoya oyingcwele ozelwe ngokutsha wokholo:
1 Abahlobo behlabathi—khangela kuYakobi 4:42 Ibandla elimanyene nookumkani bomhlaba—Khangela kwiSityhilelo 17:2
3. Abo basekelwe kumthetho-- bhekisa kumaRoma 7:1-3, Gal 3:10
(2) Ngokwemithetho yemimiselo yenyama:
1 Uze ungakrexezi — Eksodus 20:142 Othe wamala umfazi wakhe, wazeka omnye, uyakrexeza; ” Luka 16:18
3 Nabani na okhangela umntu oyinkazana, ukuba amkhanuke, uselemkrexezile entliziyweni yakhe.”— Mateyu 5:27-28 .
3. Indlela yokwahlula phakathi kothando nokukrexeza
Umbuzo: AmaKristu alubona njani uthando?Impendulo: Umtshato olungelelaniswe nguThixo luthando!
1 Umntu ufuna ukushiya abazali bakhe,2 Dibana nomfazi wakho,
3 Abo babini baba banye,
4 Lumanyano lukaThixo,
5 Makungabikho bani ukwahlulwayo—Funda uMateyu 19:4-6
6 Baye bobabini behamba ze,
7 Akanazintloni—Khangela kwiGenesis 2:24
Umbuzo: AmaKristu alubona njani ukrexezo?Impendulo: Nayiphi na inkanuko "ngaphandle" umtshato olungelelanisiweyo kaThixo uyakrexeza.
(Umzekelo:) Genesis 6:2 Xa oonyana bakaThixo bazibona iintombi zabantu ukuba zintle, bazithabatha zaba ngabafazi abazikhethele bona.
(Qaphela:) Ebona ubuhle bentombi yomntu (inkanuko yenyama, inkanuko yamehlo), ukhetha ngokuthanda kwakhe (neqhayiya lobu bomi) aze ayithabathe abe ngumfazi wakhe (engaphumi kuBawo “ uThixo”) → Ayingomtshato oququzelelwa nguThixo . Imbekiselo kuYakobi 2:16IGenesis 3-4 (hayi) UThixo usebenzisana nabafazi abangabantu ukuze babe nabantwana → “amadoda amakhulu, amagorha nabantu abadumileyo” → “amagorha, izithixo, abanekratshi, abanekratshi” abathanda ukuba “ookumkani” yaye abantu banqule okanye babanqule. .
Wabona uYehova ukuba ububi babantu bandile ehlabathini, zonke iingcinga zengcinga zabo zibububi bodwa imihla yonke, Genesis 6:5
4. Ukuziphatha kunye neempawu (zothando, ukukrexeza)
Umbuzo: Ziziphi izenzo uthando? Ngaba ezo zenzo ziyakrexeza?Impendulo: Inkcazo eneenkcukacha apha ngezantsi
(1) Indoda nomfazi
1 Umtshato wentsebenziswano kaThixo
Indoda iya kubashiya abazali bayo, inamathele emfazini wayo, baze abo babini babe nyama-nye! Umtshato odityaniswe nguThixo awunakwahlulwa ngumntu. Ngokomzekelo, umyeni ukhumbula umfazi wakhe okanye umfazi ukhumbula umyeni wakhe, bobabini bahamba ze kwaye "bamanyene" ngaphandle kweentloni → olu luthando. Nceda ubhekisele kweyoku- 1 kwabaseKorinte 7:3-4 .Umzekelo: uAdam noEva jonga kwiGenesis 2:18-24
Umzekelo: UAbraham noSarah-jonga iGenesis 12:1-5
Umzekelo: uIsake noRebheka-jonga iGenesis 24:67
2 Umtshato osikelelweyo nguThixo
Umzekelo: UNowa nosapho lwakhe - jonga iGenesis 6:18Umzekelo: UYakobi wayethandwa nguThixo, yaye abafazi bakhe ababini neempelesi zakhe zazala izizwe ezilishumi elinesibini zakwaSirayeli Lo yayingumtshato owawusikelelwe nguThixo!
Umzekelo: URute noBhohazi – Isalathisi uLuka: 4:13
3 Asingomtshato olawulwa nguThixo
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uAbraham uthabatha ishweshwe aze alale noHagare, uAbraham uya kuziva ‘eneentloni’ entliziyweni yakhe ngenxa yokuba akamfanelanga uSara umfazi wakhe! Ngoko ke, ngumtshato ongamkholisiyo uThixo. Ekugqibeleni, inkoliso yenzala kaHagare “owazala” uIshmayeli yaphambuka kwiindlela zikaThixo yaza yamshiya uThixo.
4 UThixo akajongi ukuziphatha komntu
Umzekelo: uTamashe noJudahUkuziphatha kukaTamare, umolokazana, noyisezala kwakugqalwa njengesono “sokuhenyuza” ngokwemithetho yenyama, kodwa uThixo akazange acinge ngokuziphatha kukaTamare kuphela UThixo nokholo lwakhe ekuzaleleni indlu kaYuda unyana uThixo wamvakalisa elilungisa udweliswe kumnombo kaYesu. Jonga kwiGenesis 38: 24-26, uMateyu 1: 3 kunye neDuteronomi 22 "Ummiselo wobunyulu"
Umzekelo: uLahabhi noSalmon- Mateyu 1:5
Umzekelo: UDavide noBhatshebha
UDavide ‘wakrexeza waza waboleka ikrele ukuze abulale.’ Emva kokuba uDavide ohlwaywe nguThixo, wazala uSolomon. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba uDavide wayemthanda uThixo ngentliziyo epheleleyo kwaye elandela ukuthanda kukaThixo kuyo yonke into (ekhokelela amaSirayeli ukuba athembele kuThixo), wabizwa ngokuba yindoda yentliziyo kaThixo. Bona iZenzo 13:22 neyesi-2 kaSamuweli 11-12 .
(2) Amadoda nabafazi abangatshatanga
"Amakhwenkwe namantombazana" abhekisela kumadoda nabasetyhini abangatshatanga Abafana namantombazana bathandana kwaye bafuna ukuqala intsapho. Ukuba uneengcinga ezinqwenelekayo nomnye umntu entliziyweni yakho, uyakrexeza.Njengoko iNkosi uYesu yathi: Ke mna ndithi kuni, Wonke umntu okhangela umntu oyinkazana, ukuba amkhanuke, uselemkrexezile entliziyweni yakhe. Mateyu 5:28
(3) Uqhawulo-mtshato nemiba yomtshato
Ndithi kuni, Othe wamala umfazi wakhe, kungengaluhenyuzo, uyakrexeza; nothe wazeka umfazi owaliweyo, uyakrexeza. ” Mateyu 19:9
[Njengembono kaPawulos]
1 Kwabangazekanga nabangendanga, nakubahlolokaziUkuba awukwazi ukuzibamba, ungatshata. Endaweni yokuvutha ngumnqweno, kuya kuba ngcono ukutshata. 1 Korinte 7:9
2 Ukuba indoda yakho ithe yafa, unokutshata kwakhonaKe kaloku, ukuba indoda idla ubomi, umfazi ubotshiwe ngumthetho; 1 Korinte 7:39
(4) Imicimbi yangaphandle komtshato"I-Hongxing iphuma eludongeni" ichaza ibhinqa elityatyambile ngokupheleleyo kwaye iminqweno yakhe yesini isebenze ngexesha le-estrus Ibhekisela kumfazi othandana kunye nendoda. Nokuba indoda inobudlelwane obungaphandle komtshato okanye ibhinqa lithandana ngaphandle komtshato, ukuziphatha kwabo kukukrexeza.
(5)Ukuziphatha kakubi
Uhenyuzo nokuhenyuza phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi zizenzo zokukrexeza.
Ngoko ke uThixo wabanikela kwiinkanuko eziziintloni. Abafazi babo bawujikile umsebenzi wabo wasemvelweni, waba ngumsebenzi onxamnye nemvelo; kwaza kwakwanjalo ke nakumadoda abo, akuncamayo ukusebenza kwawo kwasemvelweni, atshiseka ekukhanukelaneni, amadoda esenza izinto eziziintloni kumadoda, efanelwe yiloo nto. ukuziphindezela. Imbekiselo kumaRoma 1:26-27
(6)Ukuphulula amalungu esini
“Ulonwabo lwesono”: Amanye amadoda okanye abafazi bafumana ukwaneliseka ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nolonwabo kwisono ngokuphulula amalungu esini kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini, bazive bezisola, beziva bengento yanto emphefumlweni wabo.
(7)Amaphupha asebusuku (amaphupha amanzi)"Ukucinga yonke imihla, ukuphupha ubusuku bonke": Umzimba womntu ukhupha amahomoni e-androgen kwaye akhuphe "amadlozi". akazi; kunjalo nakubafazi." Ukuba uphupha ulala nendoda xa ukhulelwe, uyakrexeza.
Levitikus 15:16-24, 22:4; “Indoda ephuma ebusuku” ichazwa njengengahlambulukanga, kukwanjalo nakubafazi.
5 Bonke abazelwe nguThixo abasayi kuze bone;
Umbuzo: Umntu unokukuphepha njani ukukrexeza?Impendulo: Lowo kufuneka "azalwe ngokutsha" kwaye azalwe nguThixo akasayi kukrexeza.
Umbuzo: Kutheni?Impendulo: Inkcazo eneenkcukacha apha ngezantsi
1 Umntu omtsha owenziwe ngokutsha akayiyo eyenyama – bhekisa kumaRoma 8:92 Hlalani kuKristu Yesu—Khangela kumaRoma 8:1
3 Sifihlwe noKristu kuThixo—Funda kwabaseKolose 3:3
4 Lowo uzelwe nguThixo unomzimba womoya, ongathabathekiyo nangokwenkanuko yenyama. Bona eyoku- 1 kwabaseKorinte 15:44 noMateyu 22:30 .
【Phawula】
Nabani na ozelwe nguThixo waza wavuswa unomzimba womoya - bhekisa ku-1 kwabaseKorinte 15:44; inkanuko nenkanuko yenyama, kwaye akatshati okanye atshati, kufana nesithunywa sezulu! Umntu ozelwe ngokutsha akayi kona, engayi kukrexeza.
Umzekelo, imiyalelo yemimiselo yenyama:
1 Uze ungabulali
UYesu wathi: “Abantu beli hlabathi bayatshata, bayendiswa; yaye ekubeni bevusiwe, NjengoNyana kaThixo Luka 20:34-36 .
[Phawula:] Abantu abatsha abazalwa ngokutsha baze bavuswe abanakufa kwakhona, njengeengelosi. Ngelo xesha, ngaba kufuneka uthobele umyalelo othi “Uze ungabulali”? ukufa okanye isiqalekiso. Khangela kwiSityhilelo 21:4, 22:3 !
2 Uze ungakrexezi
Umzekelo: Abantu abathanda ukutshaya nabangakuthandiyo ukutshaya abantu abathanda ukutshaya bathengisa inyama yabo esonweni (bona kwabaseRoma 7:14). Intliziyo yabo ilandela Inyama ithanda ukutshaya;
Qaphela: Ngenxa yokuba umntu owenziwe ngokutsha ungumzimba womoya kwaye akasenayo iminqweno emibi kunye neminqweno yenyama, abatshati, abatshati, njengezithunywa zezulu, ngoko ke, nabani na ozelwe ngokutsha, akayi kona, akayi kukrexeza.Kuba apho kungekho mthetho, akukho sigqitho (bona kwabaseRoma 4:15)
Umntu ozelwe ngokutsha sele ekhululekile kuwo umthetho, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba uyigcine imiyalelo (ungakrexezi) kunye nemimiselo yenyama. Ngaba uyakuqonda oku?
3 Uze ungebi
Qaphelani: Abo ke wababizayo ngenxa engaphambili, wabuye wabagwebela; Roma 8:30 . Kule meko, ngaba kusekho ubusela ebukumkanini bukaThixo Ngaba kusafuneka uhlale ngokuthi "Uze ungebi"?
4 Uze ungangqini ubuxoki
Qaphela: Umntu omtsha owenziwe ngokutsha unaye uYise, ilizwi likaKristu entliziyweni yakhe, kwaye uMoya oyiNgcwele uyazihlaziya ukuze enze izinto ezikholisa uYise? Kungokuba uMoya oyiNgcwele uyakwazi ukuqonda zonke izinto, ILizwi likaThixo lingaphakathi kwethu, kwaye siyakwazi ukucalula neengcinga neengcinga zentliziyo yethu. Ke ngaba usafuna ukuthobela le migaqo akukho mfuneko, akunjalo?
5 Musa ukubawa
Qaphela: Nina nizelwe nguThixo nonke ningabantwana bakaBawo oseZulwini kwaye nililifa likaBawo oseZulwini. Lowo, gxebe, ungamconganga owakhe uNyana, wesuka wamnikela ngenxa yethu sonke, angathini na ukuba angasibabali ngazo zonke ezo zinto, ndawonye naye? Roma 8:32 . Ngale ndlela, ukuba ninelifa likaYihlo osemazulwini, ningabe nisanqwenela izinto zabanye abantu?
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