---Uhlukaniswa kanjani phakathi kothando nokuphinga---
Namuhla sizohlola ukwabelana ngobudlelwane: uthando nokuphinga
Masivule iBhayibheli kuGenesise Isahluko 2, amavesi 23-25, futhi sifunde ndawonye:Wathi umuntu: Lo uyithambo lamathambo ami nenyama yenyama yami, ungambiza ngokuthi owesifazane, ngokuba uthathwe endodeni.
Ngakho-ke indoda iyoshiya uyise nonina inamathele kumkayo, futhi laba ababili bayoba nyamanye. Lezi zithandani bezinqunu ngaleso sikhathi futhi zingenawo amahloni.
1. Uthando
Umbuzo: Luyini uthando?Impendulo: Incazelo enemininingwane ngezansi
(1) Uthando phakathi kuka-Adamu no-Eva
--Izithandani zazinqunu futhi zingenawo amahloni--
1 U-Adamu wathi ku-Eva: “Lo uyithambo lamathambo ami nenyama yenyama yami; ake ngikubize ngokuthi owesifazane.”"Abesifazane" yizipho ezinhle kakhulu ezinikezwe nguNkulunkulu kubantu, bayiqiniso, umusa nobuhle! Kungukuncoma, umngane, induduzo, nomsizi!
2 Indoda iyoshiya abazali bayo;
3 Joyina umkakho,
4 Laba ababili baba munye.
5 Indoda nomkayo babenqunu, futhi bengenamahloni.
[Qaphela] U-Adamu no-Eva baseNsimini yase-Edene, izinhliziyo zabo zazimsulwa, zingcwele, uthando lweqiniso, iqiniso, ubuhle kanye nobuhle! Ngakho-ke, indoda nomfazi banqunu futhi abanamahloni Lolu uthando olungakangeni kubantu.)
(2)Uthando phakathi kuka-Isaka noRebeka
U-Isaka wamngenisa uRebheka etendeni likaSara unina, wamthatha abe ngumkakhe, wamthanda. U-Isaka wathola induduzo njengoba unina engasekho. Genesise 24:67
[Qaphela] u-Isaka ufanekisela uKristu, futhi uRebheka ufanekisela ibandla! U-Isaka washada noRebheka futhi wamthanda! Okungukuthi, uKristu ushada ibandla futhi uthanda ibandla.
(3)Uthando Lwengoma Yezingoma
【Indoda Nezithandani Ezithandekayo】
“Othandekayo” ufanekisela uKristu,"Izithandani Ezingcono Kakhulu":
Eyoku-1 ifanekisela intombi emsulwa-2 Korinte 11:2, IsAmbulo 14:4;
U-2 ufanekisela ibandla-Efesu 5:32;
3 ifanekisela umlobokazi kaKristu - IsAmbulo 19:7.
Ngiyimbali yaseSharoni nomnduze wasesigodini.Othandiweyo wami uphakathi kwabesifazane, njengomduze phakathi kwameva.
Othandiweyo wami uphakathi kwabantu njenge-apula phakathi kwezihlahla.
Ngahlala emthunzini wakhe ngentokozo, nganambitha isithelo sakhe;
Kuzwakala kumnandi. Ungingenisa endlini yedili, abeke uthando njengebhanela lakhe phezu kwami. IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 2:1-4
Ngicela ungibeke enhliziyweni yakho njengophawu, ungithwale engalweni yakho njengesigxivizo.Ngokuba uthando lunamandla njengokufa, nomhawu ononya njengesihogo; Uthando alunakucinywa ngamanzi amaningi, futhi alunakuminzwa ngezikhukhula. Uma umuntu eshintsha wonke amagugu omndeni wakhe ngothando, uyodelelwa. IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 8:6-7
2. Ukuphinga
Umbuzo: Kuyini ukuphinga nokuphinga?Impendulo: Incazelo enemininingwane ngezansi
(1) Ngokomoya ongcwele ozelwe kabusha wokholo:
1 Abangane bezwe—bheka uJakobe 4:42 Ibandla lihlangene namakhosi omhlaba—Bheka isAmbulo 17:2
3. Labo abasekelwe emthethweni-- bheka kwabaseRoma 7:1-3, Gal 3:10
(2) Ngokwemiyalo yezimiso zenyama:
1 Ungaphingi - Eksodusi 20:142 Lowo olahla umkakhe, aganwe ngomunye, uyaphinga; ” Luka 16:18
3 Lowo obuka owesifazane, amkhanuke, usephingile naye enhliziyweni yakhe.”—Mathewu 5:27-28.
3. Uhlukaniswa kanjani phakathi kothando nokuphinga
Umbuzo: AmaKristu alubona kanjani uthando?Impendulo: Umshado ohlanganiswe nguNkulunkulu uluthando!
1 Umuntu ufuna ukushiya abazali bakhe,2 Hlangana nomkakho,
3 Laba ababili baba munye,
4 Kungukubambisana kukaNkulunkulu,
5 Makungahlukaniswa muntu—Bheka uMathewu 19:4-6
6 Babehamba ze bobabili,
7 Awunamahloni—Bheka uGenesise 2:24
Umbuzo: AmaKristu akubona kanjani ukuphinga?Impendulo: Noma iyiphi inkanuko "ngaphandle" umshado kaNkulunkulu odidiyelwe ukuphinga.
(Isibonelo:) Genesise 6:2 Lapho amadodana kaNkulunkulu ebona amadodakazi abantu ukuthi ayemahle, azithathela abafazi abazikhethela wona.
(Qaphela:) Ngokubona ubuhle bendodakazi yomuntu (inkanuko yenyama, inkanuko yamehlo), ukhetha ngokuthanda kwakhe (kanye nokuzigqaja kwalokhu kuphila) futhi ayithathe abe ngumkakhe (futhi akuveli kuBaba “ uNkulunkulu”) → Akuwona umshado ohlanganiswe uNkulunkulu . Bheka uJakobe 2:16Genesise 3-4 (hhayi) UNkulunkulu ubambisana nabesifazane abangabantu ukuze babe nabantwana → “amadoda amakhulu, abantu abangamaqhawe nabadumile” → “amaqhawe, izithombe, abazidlayo, abazidlayo” abathanda ukuba “amakhosi” futhi benze ukuba abantu bakhulekelwe noma bakhulekelwe. .
UJehova wabona ukuthi ububi bomuntu bukhulu emhlabeni nokuthi yonke imicabango yemicabango yakhe mibi njalo, Genesise 6:5
4. Ukuziphatha kanye nezici (zothando, ukuphinga)
Umbuzo: Yiziphi izenzo uthando? Ingabe lezo zenzo ziyaphinga?Impendulo: Incazelo enemininingwane ngezansi
(1) Indoda nomfazi
1 Umshado wokubambisana kukaNkulunkulu
Indoda iyoshiya abazali bayo futhi inamathele kumkayo, futhi laba ababili bayoba nyamanye! Umshado ohlanganiswe uNkulunkulu awunakuhlukaniswa ngumuntu. Isibonelo, indoda ikhumbula umkayo noma inkosikazi ikhumbula umyeni wayo Laba ababili banqunu futhi "bahlangene" ngaphandle kwamahloni → lolu uthando. Sicela ubheke eyoku-1 Korinte 7:3-4.Isibonelo: U-Adamu no-Eva - bheka kuGenesise 2:18-24
Isibonelo: U-Abrahama noSara - bheka kuGenesise 12:1-5
Isibonelo: U-Isaka noRebheka - bheka kuGenesise 24:67
2 Umshado obusiswe uNkulunkulu
Isibonelo: UNowa nomndeni wakhe - bheka uGenesise 6:18Isibonelo: UJakobe wayethandwa uNkulunkulu, futhi abafazi bakhe ababili nezincekukazi ezimbili zazala izizwe eziyishumi nambili zakwa-Israyeli Lona kwakuwumshado owawubusiswe nguNkulunkulu!
Isibonelo: URuthe noBhowazi – Isikhombo Luka: 4:13
3 Akuwona umshado oqondiswa uNkulunkulu
Ngokwesibonelo, uma u-Abrahama ethatha isancinza futhi alale noHagari, u-Abrahama ‘uyoba namahloni’ enhliziyweni yakhe ngoba akamfanele uSara umkakhe! Ngakho-ke, umshado ongamjabulisi uNkulunkulu. Ekugcineni, iningi lenzalo kaHagari “owazala” u-Ishmayeli laphambuka ezindleleni zikaNkulunkulu futhi lamshiya uNkulunkulu.
4 UNkulunkulu akabheki ukuziphatha komuntu
Isibonelo: uThamashi noJudaUkuziphatha kukaTamari, umalokazana, kanye noyisezala kwakubhekwa njengesono “sobufebe” ngokwemithetho yenyama Nokho, uNkulunkulu akazange acabangele ukuziphatha kukaTamari UNkulunkulu nokholo lwakhe ekuzaleleni indlu kaJuda indodana uNkulunkulu wathi ulungile ubhalwe ohlwini lozalo lukaJesu. Bheka kuGenesise 38:24-26, Mathewu 1:3 kanye noDuteronomi 22 “Isimiso Sobumsulwa”.
Isibonelo: ULahabi noSalmoni—Mathewu 1:5
Isibonelo: UDavide noBhati-sheba
UDavide ‘waphinga waboleka inkemba ukuze abulale. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi uDavide wayemthanda uNkulunkulu ngenhliziyo yonke futhi elandela intando kaNkulunkulu kukho konke (eholela ama-Israyeli ukuba athembele kuNkulunkulu), wabizwa ngokuthi indoda elandela inhliziyo kaNkulunkulu. Bheka izEnzo 13:22 kanye neyesi-2 Samuweli 11-12.
(2) Amadoda nabesifazane abangashadile
"Abafana namantombazane" kubhekiselwa kwabesilisa nabesifazane abangashadile Abafana namantombazane bathandane futhi bafuna ukuqala umndeni Lokhu kuyisiqalo sothando. Uma unemicabango evusa inkanuko nomunye umuntu enhliziyweni yakho, uyaphinga.Njengoba iNkosi uJesu yathi: Kodwa mina ngithi kini: Yilowo nalowo obuka owesifazane, amkhanuke, usephingile naye enhliziyweni yakhe. Mathewu 5:28
(3) Abafelokazi Izehlukaniso nezindaba zomshado
Ngithi kini: Yilowo nalowo olahla umkakhe, ngaphandle kokuphinga, uyaphinga; ” Mathewu 19:9
[Njengombono kaPaul uqobo]
1 Kwabangashadile nabafelokaziUma ungakwazi ukuzibamba ungashada. Esikhundleni sokuvutha isifiso, kungaba ngcono ukushada. 1 Korinte 7:9
2 Uma umyeni wakho efa, ungaphinde ushadeUma indoda isaphila, umfazi uboshiwe; 1 Korinte 7:39
(4) Izindaba zangaphandle"I-Hongxing iphuma odongeni" kuchaza owesifazane oseqhakazile futhi izifiso zakhe zobulili zisebenza ngesikhathi se-estrus Kubhekisela ekubaleni kowesifazane nokujola nendoda. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi owesilisa unobudlelwane bobulili ngaphandle komshado noma owesifazane uqomile, ukuziphatha kwabo ukuphinga.
(5)Ukuziphatha okubi
Kokubili ubufebe nobufebe phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane kuyizenzo zokuphinga.
Ngakho-ke uNkulunkulu wabanikela ezinkanukweni eziyihlazo. Abesifazane babo baphendule ukusetshenziswa kwabo kwemvelo kwaba ukusetshenziswa okuphambene nemvelo, kanjalo nabesilisa babo, abaye bashiya ukusetshenziswa kwabo kwemvelo, badliwa yinkanuko, bakhanukelana, futhi amadoda enza izinto eziyihlazo namadoda, futhi afanelwe yikho. ukuziphindiselela. Funda kwabaseRoma 1:26-27
(6)Ukushaya indlwabu
“Ubumnandi besono”: Abanye abesilisa noma abesifazane bathola ukwaneliseka ngokomzimba kanye nenjabulo esonweni ngokushaya indlwabu kanye nokushaya indlwabu, bazizwa bezisola, bebuhlungu futhi bengenalutho emiphefumulweni yabo.
(7)Amaphupho asebusuku (wet dreams)"Ukucabanga nsuku zonke, ukuphupha njalo ebusuku": Umzimba womuntu wesilisa ukhipha amahomoni e-androgen futhi ukhiphe "isidoda" Ebusuku, uzolandela inkanuko yomzimba wakhe lapho elele, aphuphe elala nowesifazane amaziyo akazi; kunjalo nakwabesifazane." Uma uphupha ulala nendoda ukhulelwe, uyaphinga.
ULevitikusi 15:16-24, 22:4, 4 “Ukungcola kwendoda ebusuku” kubhekwa njengokungcolile, futhi kunjalo nangabesifazane.
5. Ozelwe nguNkulunkulu akasoze ona
Umbuzo: Umuntu angakugwema kanjani ukuphinga?Impendulo: Lowo okufanele “aphinde azalwe” futhi azelwe nguNkulunkulu ngeke aphinge.
Umbuzo: Kungani?Impendulo: Incazelo enemininingwane ngezansi
1 Umuntu omusha ozelwe kabusha akayena owenyama - bheka kwabaseRoma 8:92 Hlalani kuKristu Jesu—Bheka kwabaseRoma 8:1
3 Kufihlwe noKristu kuNkulunkulu—Bheka kwabaseKolose 3:3
4 Lowo ozelwe nguNkulunkulu unomzimba womoya, ongenazo izinkanuko nezinkanuko zenyama (umuntu omusha) akashadi futhi akabendiswa. Bheka eyoku-1 Korinte 15:44 noMathewu 22:30.
【Qaphela】
Noma ubani ozelwe nguNkulunkulu futhi wavuswa unomzimba womoya - bheka ku-1 Korinte 15:44 umuntu omusha akayena owomzimba omdala - bheka kwabaseRoma 8:9, ngakho-ke owenziwe kabusha (umuntu omusha) akanawo amandla; izinkanuko nezifiso ezimbi zenyama, futhi akashadi noma ashade kufana nengelosi evela ezulwini! Umuntu omusha ozelwe kabusha ngeke one, futhi ngeke aphinge.
Isibonelo, imiyalo yezimiso zenyama:
1 Ungabulali
UJesu wathi: “Abantu baleli zwe bayashada futhi bayendiswa; futhi njengoba bevusiwe, NjengeNdodana kaNkulunkulu Luka 20:34-36 .
[Qaphela:] Abantu abasha abazalwa kabusha futhi bavuswe ngeke baphinde bafe, njengezingelosi. Ngaleso sikhathi, ingabe udinga ukugcina umyalo othi “Ungabulali”? ukufa noma isiqalekiso. Bheka kusAmbulo 21:4, 22:3!
2 Ungaphingi
Isibonelo: Abantu abathanda ugwayi nabantu abangakuthandi ugwayi abantu abathanda ukubhema inyama yabo ithengiswe esonweni (bona kwabaseRoma 7:14). izinhliziyo zabo zilandela Inyama ithanda ukubhema;
Qaphela: Ngoba umuntu omusha owenziwe kabusha ungumzimba womoya futhi akasenazo izinkanuko nezifiso ezimbi zenyama, abashadi futhi abashadi njengezingelosi.Ngokuba lapho kungekho mthetho, akukho ukweqa (bona kwabaseRoma 4:15).
Umuntu ozelwe kabusha usekhululekile kakade emthethweni, futhi asikho isidingo sokuba ugcine imiyalo (ukungafebi) nezimiso zenyama Noma ubani ozelwe nguNkulunkulu akoni futhi akoni. Uyakuqonda lokhu?
3 Ungebi
Qaphela: Labo abamisa ngaphambili wababiza futhi; Roma 8:30. Kulokhu, ingabe kusekhona ukweba embusweni kaNkulunkulu Ingabe usadinga ukuhlala ngokuthi “Ungebi”?
4 Ungafakazi amanga
Qaphela: Umuntu omusha owenziwe kabusha unoBaba kuye, izwi likaKristu enhliziyweni yakhe, futhi uMoya oNgcwele uyazivuselela ukwenza izinto ezijabulisa uBaba Ngale ndlela, ingabe angakwazi ukufakaza "ubufakazi bamanga"? kulungile Ngoba uMoya oNgcwele uyakwazi ukuqonda zonke izinto, Izwi likaNkulunkulu likithi, futhi singakwazi ukubona ngisho nemicabango nezinhloso zezinhliziyo zethu. Ngakho-ke usadinga ukuthobela le mithethonqubo, akunjalo?
5 Ungabi nobugovu
Qaphela: Nina enizelwe nguNkulunkulu nonke ningabantwana bakaBaba waseZulwini futhi niyifa likaBaba oseZulwini. Yena ongayigodlanga eyakhe iNdodana, kepha wayinikela ngenxa yethu sonke, angayikusinika kanjani konke kanye nayo na? Roma 8:32 . Ngale ndlela, uma unefa likaYihlo osezulwini, usazofisa izinto zabanye abantu na?
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